Tag: mental health

  • LivWithClairity: If You Truly Want To Win: Make friends with your enemy

    Everything is love in disguise

    This is a blanketed statement when I say, the reason earth experiences so many war crimes against humanity and across the globe, displaying many creative capacities in which to do so, is because war strongly indicates an external reflection of an internal battle. Anyone who is focused on war in any sense of the word is at war within themselves. Their mind is a battlefield. All external stimuli to which they choose to focus on makes this clearly evident to me.

    When you expose yourself to any horrid conditions to which you have no outward control over, you increase the risk of your subconscious creating a war with yourself. Your self reflections, in any capacity which surrounds external global suffering, produces subconscious addictions which reinforce shame, desperation, greed, pride, anger, depression and other internal struggles.

    People across the globe are at war within themselves. Until all people self reflect through unconditional love and loving acceptance, then take action with the wisdom they came to understand to alchemize the pain into peaceful recovery, would war seize to exist. Peace is restored within one to help spread peace to another. One person has to start it. When all souls seize to fight themselves, heaven on earth becomes our golden age.

    Funny, not funny. I think about retirees and consider their retirement being identified as their supposed golden age. The reason for this is simple really. They developed the art of not giving a shyte anymore. They chose to stop fighting within themselves. A retiree may be joyous and free. A retiree may become cantankerous like my father. Either way, they are in their golden years because they stopped fighting within themselves. They simply accept who they are.

    Imagine that. People suffer only to retire into whatever they agreed to suffer with. They accept themselves one way or another.

    If only people would embrace their golden age now. It has nothing to do with status, money, or even physical health really. It’s about accepting who they are with love instead of pain. What a utopia that would be. It would be mine anyway.

    I think about that, my why. What’s the reason I keep pushing forward? What’s the reason I chose this path? What’s the reason I refuse to give up? Valuable questions. I explore these questions often and is likely for a different blog entry.

    You have a dark side and a light side. Your ego bounces between the two because your ego’s identity is linked to both. Your higher consciousness, or spirit as it were, is familiar with the ego, not necessarily attached to it. There is a difference. This difference creates an internal war inside a person’s mind when they have become so conditioned to believe they must survive! “This is a dog eat dog world! You gotta do the best to be the best!”.

    “Do as you are told!” “Expect this and suck it up!” “Life is meant to be hard. Deal with it!” “The world is corrupt. You gotta beat them to the finish line!” “You gotta take cause no one is willing to give.” “If you can’t beat them, join them.” “Forget about your past. Your emotions are weak.” “What’s the point of me giving a shit? I have no say.” “What point is there? The world is turning to shit anyway”.

    Ouch. Pretty nasty thoughts if you ask me. This is war. This feeds external projections and collective mindsets to produce crime of any kind. This is my blanketed statement and perception representing a rooted truth in modern day society. Oppressed emotions create war. Overstimulated emotions create war. Having no emotions creates complete disconnection from their light essence. Their personal reality is literally their physical living and their spiritually existing nightmare or hell as many refer to it as.

    I can recognize this because I used to be at war with myself. I used to watch breaking news stories, true crime documentaries, (sometimes still do as they intrigue me. I learn much as I observe), social media videos, and then argumentative conversations, which feeds into more pain and suffering for our beautiful planet, and for our beautiful brothers and sisters. We are light beings yanking ourselves down into further darkness. We humans grew the hateful seed that was given to us and that we had ourselves originally planted many moons ago. We are crabs in a bucket rather than majestic elephants living in a unified existence.

    I can feel immense internal pain for our world. I still do if I choose to expose myself to that stimuli for longer than a self awareness check. If you think about it, and notice a pattern in your energy before you watch a painful story, and after you watch a painful story, you can see a sneaky manipulation tactic to lower your frequency into an internal war like state. This is an energetic pyramid scheme to which most human beings did not sign up for. Me included.

    Whatever you have done in your life, was done for a perceived reason. That reason is discovered in hindsight. Everything happens for a divine reason because you are the one who gives your life any sense of meaning. What meaning are you choosing to give your life’s adventure?

    Rather than hate yourself or another person, choose to uncover the gift within the experience you had with them. There is empowerment and loving wisdom inside a divine gift box. You receive it at the exact same time as when you have a substantial impact. You just gotta be willing to open the gift and take a deeper look inside.

    Your ego will blame others. Disallow this. Your ego will remind you of the past hurts because that is a fragmented awareness stuck in time. This fragmented awareness likely aided in a future negative decision and action. This results in your reinforcement of self hate. Can you see the spiral? Disallow this. Follow your breadcrumbs back in time. Collect them. See people for who they are, not what they represent to you. Love them because they too did what you did, which was to act out in pain.

    What was said to you? From whom was it said? Do you know their journey? Can you see the reason for their perception? Can you see the reason for your perception? Does this perception help you today? What character attributes can you identify and continue to reinforce for yourself? Who are you after having this experience? Are you committed to being you?

    If you are, shake hands with the darker side of you who took over to help keep you safe. Tell your dark side that you are friends. Respect what you are capable of with love. Then determine your healthy boundaries. Your light side sets your boundaries. Your dark side defends them. Now your dark shadow and your light reflection work in alignment so that you can maintain peace and loving abundance. This is heaven on earth. This becomes your sanctuary. It’s a beautiful thing. This is empowerment as far as I can tell.

    You can’t get rid of your ego so you might as well embrace yourself. Some boundaries may be soft and some of your boundaries may be hard core. Fair enough. You are creating your utopia. Respect, period.

    As an example, for me, I give a notable second chance for a person being late or cancelling on me without giving me due notice. These people have already shown that they deserve a level of respect from me. If they repeat their actions, they must exit my reality. I send them on their way with love in my heart, and sternness in my mind.

    A hardcore boundary, no questions asked, and no explanation necessary, would be, my complete rejection of theft and cheating actions of any kind. You cheat, you can see yourself out. You lie to me to hide a misdealing and I know about it, you can see yourself out. I have zero tolerance for this type of character, be it in business or in pleasure. I couldn’t care less who you are.

    See, a dark side can be fun once you made friends with yourself. If you don’t make friends, your shadow will yell and scream to enforce your defense. War will be your result.

    Balance your mind so that it becomes a beautiful place to be. Love your mind so that magic can be borne from within. Expose yourself to global events to help build your awareness, not to disharmonize your energy. Too much exposure to anything can be self harmful. Be your own guiding force. This is world peace for a person. One person at a time. Choose to be that person then lead by silent example.