Tag: psychic

(Disclaimer: Some names have been changed to protect their privacy. Mature subject matter. Read at your discretion. 18+)

You perceive a world through a personal lens composed of subliminal conditioning. You have different experiences which trigger thoughts, which then trigger emotions that are associated with your thoughts. Your emotions are energy in motion. Your emotions send a pulse to a receiver. Whatever or whoever it is that senses your energy then reacts to it. The receiver’s reaction is in direct relation to the intent behind the energy in motion. The intent behind the energy determines the severity of the impact and to what degree it affects their intended target.

An action provides a point of reference in our external world in which to draw from.

“This happened because of this”, would be the reasoning for the results, when in all honesty, the greater impact is in the unseen. What is unseen is the undercurrent, which is the sender’s true intentions behind their actions.

As an example, a handshake can look like a greeting with mutual respect on the surface. Whereas the undercurrent offers a different result. If the intent is to dominate in the exchange, the handshake turns into a subliminal threat, rather than a friendly greeting. In this instance, the handshake offers little value nor does it offer long term rewards. If one or both people who are giving a handshake have animosity, it is the animosity which lingers. The action is weak. The intent behind the action becomes the dominant force and can create further energetic disturbances. This action would play in the minds of both participants and anyone who is witness to the tension felt within the gesture. The greater numbers of minds thinking, the stronger tension is felt. Repetitive thoughts feed intentions. Intentions win in the end, for good or for bad. This is war and peace. Intent creates war or peace. Actions simply give surface reasons to foster war or peace.

Your thoughts attract others who are composed of the same energy, yet vibing differently. Your thoughts attract someone because you share a familiar energetic signal. Your natural energetic signal links together with like minded energy. Like minded energy vibrates in a frequency which is similar to your own. Energy which is on different wavelengths are then repelled because they are not in sync with your energy.

Even if on the surface it looks as though two people have complete opposite beliefs, they still vibe well together because the undercurrent ruling the relationship is harmonious. What you see externally is only the outer layer. The world of matter provides surface level observations. Several energetic layers hidden underneath pull two people together. You draw someone in because there is power in numbers. We are a species who co-create. We co-create to evolve creation. To co-create, we must attract one another. Our thoughts allow for this to naturally unfold.

The universe is designed to offer you any experience you wish to explore. The challenge with this is, most humans desire what they believe they cannot have. When a person knows they have something at any time; true love, money, sex, whatever, the energy of desire being emitted is simply a matter-of-fact. They have a confident knowing. They know they can have it so they do. The undercurrent is their intent to prove what they already know.

Sometimes people feel, and maintain a state of boredom, because they are void of any desire at all. They have or can have anything materialistic of their choosing. In all sense of material success, they have it. They are not desperate when it comes to money. They may be desperate to be accepted for who they are, not what they have materially to bring to the table? If this is the case, their desperation would attract gold diggers. They believe they are to be taken advantage of, so, their universe conspires to match them with someone who will help them prove this to be true for themselves.

Desire born from desperation tends to reject whatever it is you desperately desire. Reason being, you are choosing to experience desperation. If you have your ultimate goal, how could the universe satisfy your request to stay in desperation?

The universe translates the energy being emitted from you as a request to maintain an experience of lack. Be it in love or finances. The results are the same. Desperation keeps the chase and race to the finish line going. Knowing you have it, shows you, you had already crossed it.

In the instance of boredom, a person can get trapped in a perpetual cycle of a need to attain more and more in their life. Quite often it comes from some form of rejection in childhood. Achieving more means they would have a better chance at being seen and admired. They may have developed a perception that who they were growing up was unimportant. They may have heard messages such as, “children are meant to be seen and not heard”. “Out of sight, out of mind”. “You don’t know what you are talking about because you’re too young to understand”. “No news is good news when it comes to your well-being”, and so on.

In addition, it is not uncommon for people who are generally comfortable in chaos to be bored when in a peaceful state. Doing deep reflection can be daunting for people so they may associate down time with boredom. An addiction to a dopamine rush can, and does often form to replace their quieted mind. From there, conscious thoughts of “I’m bored. I gotta do something. I gotta have that”, begins the game of chase. Withdrawal from dopamine addiction can be brutal for a mind stuck inside this cave.

Life becomes more difficult for people who have a restless mind. Fighting with boredom means you must always be on the go. If not physically, most certainly mentally. A bored mind becomes antsy quickly. Boredom and peace are the dark and light side of the same coin. They are synonymous. A slight shift in perception is what determines dark or light.

The light switch to illuminate the dark is always there. The switch is inside your mind. It’s a default feature. Turn the light switch on to see rewards that a quiet mind offers, which is peace. Keep the light switch turned off to bump into things. The choice is yours to make.

It took me fifty years to find my light switch. Many things went bump in the night in my life. It is perfectly understandable if you have no idea that boredom and desperation often become a weighted down energetic infection in your life. The cure is a reflective mind which can discern appropriate actions for rest and rejuvenation over fast paced movements. Balance is required. When you are at peace in silence, you have won the internal war you may have been having with yourself.

Not everything is as it seems. Even those who seem to have it all crave something. Causing them to perpetuate a mindset of lack in some way. When it comes to material success, they may be able to quickly satisfy a craving. Creating a quick burst of desire and overall personal satisfaction. Kind of like the climax point whilst having sex. Only it’s pure energy that I am referring to. It’s usually fast, impactful, and fleeting. Other areas of their life, such as true love in an intimate connection may be elusive for them.

If a person gets bored easily, they are asking the universe to give them the experience of boredom so that they can feel a dopamine rush. All the while, they avoid asking themselves questions to better understand the reason for it. They ignore importance of self evaluation so they find themselves in this perpetual state of desperation, depression, and boredom.

With that, anyone in a state of desperation is likely tossed back and forth in their mind between extreme stresses, and extreme pleasures. They fight their mind by avoiding a sense of boredom. Subconsciously, they reject the idea of looking at their painful memories which are likely causing their reality to be shaped the way it is. They place themselves in a game of playground teeter totter with no end in sight. Moving up and down between highs and lows. If you tend to get bored easily, you would be wise to fight an urge to distract yourself. Embrace quiet time as peace. Quiet time is a gift for you to utilize as it gives you an opportunity to ask yourself meaningful questions. When you ask yourself questions and are willing to receive answers to your questions, you notice your light switch much easier. The more answers you receive through observation, the more confidence you build in who you are with or without things. You then step out of mental darkness and step into mental liberation. It was the case for me anyway.

With that in mind, it’s wise to recognize most, if not all people, have some form of insecurity. I am no exception. You would be no exception. Desperation is found within these familiar insecurities. Regardless of age, ethnicity, gender, title, or affluence. An insecure person can remain insecure because they are telling their universe that is who they wish to be.

God always says yes. Universe then conspires to create an experience based around the insecurity which ultimately feeds the insecurity. “I told you so! I suck!”, etc.

Remember, we have collective mindsets. There is someone readily available to help you reinforce negative thoughts you have of yourself. There are also an abundance of people who can help you reinforce your awesomeness too. Both groups of people exist at the exact same time. If you go looking for them, you do in fact find them. Seek and yee shall find.

Unfortunately, most people are ignorant to the energy they are emitting by their insecurities on a daily basis. Therefore, they maintain a frequency of lack in some areas of their life. Keeping what they truly desire for themselves at a distance.  They unfortunately surround themselves with people and place themselves in situations which trigger them and hold them in place. “I am not meant to have…”

Confident minded individuals create, and execute a plan of action, and know with little to no doubt that they achieve it. It’s not a matter of if. It is a matter of when, in their mind. Life experience creates this confidence. Confidence is built on learning what you did not know about yourself. You gotta ask yourself questions to build your confidence. A quiet mind holds your answers.

Meditation is highly effective in achieving long term reward. Many great leaders maintain their confidence regularly this way. Maintain means, they put in the effort to honor what they have built inside their minds on a daily basis. They avoid being impulsive. Instead, they tend to be deliberate with their thoughts and actions. Therefore, desire would not be emitted through a frequency of desperation and lack. They know they are successful. It’s not a belief. It is a fact to them.

As I am sure you know, weaker energy creates weaker results. Confidence creates stronger results. Energy which trumps uncertainty, or the unknown in this instance, is confidence in one’s own self, and unshakable faith in a successful outcome. That’s who I am becoming. A person with unshakable faith in an end result.

Everyone desires something. Mine is having the experience of authentic true love from a man. A billionaire may desire authentic love. A homeless person like me may desire true love over money. A dedicated working individual may desire retirement due to exhaustion. Anyone desires recognition. We are created to be social beings after all. Even the most successful may desire relief from feeling as though their best isn’t quite good enough in some way. Everyone, including you, desires something which requires confidence and an unwavering faith in the outcome.

If you secretly hold a desire for something or someone, and you hold uncertainty that having it or them is possible, your energy then sends out a desperate signal into the universe. You are telling the universe to provide you with an experience which ignites a feeling of desire. Resulting in an even stronger sense of desperation. You create a catch twenty-two in life, basically. You stay in desire instead of actually receiving what it is you desire.

You gotta have confidence to attract something towards you. You also have to gain some experience in order to gain the confidence to attract what it is you are focused on. That’s quite a challenge for someone whose only real confidence is experiencing a challenged life. Two steps forward. Three steps back. Lack of confidence holds this pattern in place.

Desperation then feeds envy, jealousy, anger, frustration, disassociation, and a feeling of loss. The effects compound. Whilst a person is in this state of awareness, cyclical patterns control them. They fall into a vicious trap. In other words, the chase is on to keep up with the Jones’s!, just so they can feel important and impactful in some way.

Does that make sense?

“I have no value unless I have something shiny to show for it”, sort of deal.

You get exactly what you feel more often than what you consciously think. If you feel desperation and call it desire, you receive experiences which allow you to keep desperate. If you believe you are unlovable, you attract people who agree with you. Reason being, you are telling the universe you wish to experience emotional pain associated with being unloved.

There are several people in this world who believe they are unlovable. They can help you reinforce that you are not lovable as well. I know that sounds harsh. It is also true. I attracted loveless relationships throughout my life. I broke this attraction by loving myself.

Hurt people do hurt people. People who secretly believe they are unlovable are hurting. They are trapped inside this experience. A narcissist who doesn’t believe true love exists meets an empathic person who believes true love does exist. They both have to prove love is elusive in their lives either way. The universe helps to accomplish this result. They create a self imposing and loveless prison inside their own mind. Narcissists and empaths play out this prison through a physical manifested union.

A narcissist and an empath are two individuals who express themselves to the other in their own unique way, whilst also at opposite ends of the spectrum. Resulting in two people using each other as a projection screen to prove to themselves they are not truly lovable. The universe grants their secret wish to be reminded that they wouldn’t experience true love from another. Internally, their little child ego inside screams “why am I such an asshole?”, or, “why does no one love me?”. That was my prison for the longest time. I lived with the ‘arsehole’ whilst I believed I was not loveable.

I had enough of disappointing results in my life. I thought quite a bit about the question Clairity had asked me. What are the similarities between my two ex husbands, Rosie, and my Dad’s character? I tell ya, breadcrumbs become an entire meal once you put all the morsels on your plate. I was ready to see them, and eat up all the information I could find. What a revelation it was when I connected all the dots with the help of Clairity.

Before I take you on this path of subliminal love messaging, I like to express something important to me as it relates to everyone I have loved, or been in contact with throughout my life. I love and respect all of the characters who have played a role in my life. There is no right nor is there wrong. Only experiences to learn from. There is no blame nor shame, only teachers and students. We are all here on physical earth to learn about ourselves to the best of our abilities, and with what we know about ourselves based upon ego conditioning. There is no fault in that. There is a little exploration required to uncover the truth though. That takes perseverance and personal accountability.

Yes, there are consequences to our actions. How are you supposed to learn anything if there was no such thing as cause and effect? In addition to that, as mentioned before, not everything is as it seems. Sometimes you must express unconditional love by walking away from someone. It looks to be callous when in fact it is a loving acceptance.

Acceptance through love can look cruel on the surface. A conditioned mind would feel victimized by a person walking away from them. To them, the action is ungrateful and cold hearted. The person walking away mind you, may be in a state of loving acceptance. They may know that the other person wouldn’t be able to see them any other way than as a villain. Therefore there would be no growth between them.

What I am basically saying is, I have embraced forgiveness for all, including myself. I walked away from everyone, with the exception of my children. Is this considered cold hearted? or, expression of unconditional love through acceptance of the truth in the matter? That’s for you to decide. I already know the answer for myself.

A layer fueling my desire for love is intelligence. My father is an extremely intelligent man. I admire that about him. That quality also helped me to manifest experiences where I would be played as a fool.

“I am a naive person who is unlovable” was a destructive message that I kept on giving myself. I proved that to be true until I chose to see it as false. I bet if you keep following along on my journey, you will start to connect some dots in your life too. We may have different experiences. With that said, a themed message appears in many forms.