(Disclaimer: Mature subject matter. Reader discretion is advised. 18+)
Death comes with pain of some kind. A person who is at peace and who transitions “home” to spirit, may not experience any discomfort nor pain. With that said, loved ones who are still in their physical incarnation sure do feel anguish of some kind.
Even people, such as myself, who are in no contact with all relatives, including my parents and brother, experience the painful process of mourning. Grief has no prejudice. Grief visits all souls who incarnated here. I may have a clearer understanding of my parents. I may understand the trauma and false information that I had received. My ego may also be afraid of my parents. With all that said, I shall mourn them when they go. I know this. I am not an exception to this process. Neither are you, my dear reader.
Death is painful; when you look at this beautiful transition through tormented eyes. Fear of death is understandable. The 3D world has conditioned light beings into believing in another place that you go to. Then you may be taught that, just like with Santa, you must follow the rules and be a good boy, or a good girl, or a good they. Otherwise, you would not receive an open gate into your heaven. 3D reality can also be quite violent. This too would create fear of death in people. Unless you are a masochist or hold an incredibly powerful mission to create change, you would likely opt out of painful and traumatic exit points of any kind.
As mentioned in a previous post or two, exit points are energetic gateways which have been agreed upon and “written” within your soul contract. You had given yourself periodic ways out. You had also chosen when, where, and how you are to experience your own death. The challenge with this is, death translates in the ethereal realm the same way childbirth does here in the 3D-4D reality. “Yeah death is painful, but it isn’t enough to stop me from reincarnating again”.
The physical reality of a death doesn’t truly hit until your ego identifies its impact and the potential outcome, which is based upon your personal point of reference. Your point of reference is your learned assumptions. This can create fear for sure. With that in mind, this post is intended to help shed some light on the way your loved ones and spirit communicate with you, and the reason legit mediums can be beneficial for the human grieving process.
People who proclaim to be mediums and who choose to work within an ego driven framework, are not considered legit mediums for me. In my mind, a charlatan can be found in any sector of life.
Genuine mediums can most certainly build a stable living from their craft and abilities. In fact, spirit beings quite often encourages this. Reason being, an intuitive with genuine intent and a strong loving level of discernment, requires some money to physically prosper, and to build their own heaven on earth.
Charlatans most certainly do exist. Charlatans are less favoured by spirit. No loved one would ever want to hurt you. With that, they would not seek out a charlatan to speak with you, period. With that in mind, you must trust the vibe you receive from them. Before anything that comes out of their mouth directed at you. If you think of anything which creates considerable doubt, or if you feel uncomfortable within you in any way, such as a sudden emotion which is different than the one you experience before shaking hands with them, then make a graceful exit. Trust yourself first. There are people who are highly attached to their ego, and therefore, may succumb to temptation. When a person succumbs to temptation, their moral compass tends to cloud over at best. When this happens, you inevitably get misguided or manipulated. Neither one of those offer true healing. Only pain ensues from this approach to grief.
I don’t consider myself a psychic. I do not consider myself a medium. I consider myself aware. The more aware you are, the easier it is to distinguish your thoughts, your feelings, and any vibes you may be experiencing. When this occurs, you are, if not already, sensitive like me. Does this make you psychic? Sure, I guess. I prefer to see it as self aware. No neon sign in the window for me, thanks.
The information I am about to write here offers you further awareness to consider, not necessarily internalize as fact. The last thing I would ever want is for someone to take what I say as gospel, and then write it down in a book somewhere and call it holy. No thank you. Trust yourself before you trust me too. If what you read resonates, you will know. If your mind rejects it, perfect. You have another way to experience creation. This is a beautiful thing.
The best way I can describe what I see in my mind as it relates to this is, a colourful ball inside a colourful ball, inside a colourful ball, that extends to infinite measure. Different plains of existence are layered and vibrate similar to that of the moon’s lunar cycles. When the moon is full, your knowledge has been illuminated. This would be considered a high vibrating “layer” of existence. When the moon is eclipsed, darkness is had. This represents a “layer” of existence which vibrates within dark matter. All other levels of creation are variant degrees of fluctuating light and dark particles producing varying degrees of energy waves. These energetic signals between souls are spread out. Whilst also metaphorically glued together across space and time through telepathic communication.
You and I exist somewhere within these energetic and spherical layers. They are similar to that of the moon phases. The darker the moon is, equates to denser energy. The brighter the moon, equals light vibes. Where we resonate within these phases, dictates our perception of time and space. The darker eclipse is a denser existence. A darker beings’ perceived conditions of time become slowed down. Time matches their frequency. The reason their perception of time is slower is because they are vibrating at a much slower rate. Their frequency helps to create denser matter. A spirit being can experience eternal hell just by the production of their negative thoughts alone.
Your frequency, coupled with your own expectations, determines time for you. It is for this reason, time is taught as linear, and is also an illusion tool for this reality. You decide how you wish to experience time. Your thoughts which provide your sound waves, take you to slower or faster realities. Slower is a form of hell. Faster is a form of bliss. “Could this day go any slower?, and “time flies when you’re having fun” after all.
I do not consider earth as flat. I consider earth as a rotating spherical creation with varying degrees of light and dark energy. These varying degrees of energy then gives birth to other versions of earth stamped on top of its own predecessor. These varying degrees of earth as we know it, are layered on top of one another similar to that of 3D, 4D, 5D, and so on, pancakes, only not flat. I see them as spheres of light.
I believe it may be for this reason, anytime I interacted with my Grandpa Joe, he looked to be floating slightly above me. It’s not that he was in a different world. He was vibrating at a higher frequency which does not require denser matter. Grandpa Joe was on his version of earth. When I left my denser body, I was able to cross the veil for two reasons. Firstly, I was out of my dense body. Secondly, my Grandpa Joe influenced my thoughts so that I would feel safe to explore what he manipulated my mind to see.
Grandpa Joe has been a loving guide for me. He has worked within my frame of reference. Grandpa Joe and I created what we experienced together by way of natural acceptance, and mutual love and respect.
With that, heaven and hell are not places you go to and are not a separate world from this one. They are all one in the same. Vibrating at different rates of speed, light, and sound which creates the illusion of separatism.
Consider it like the ink on a stamp of approval with the same ink being repeatedly stamped on a piece of paper. Some stamped areas appear darker because that spot was hit often. Other areas look lighter because they have slightly shifted off of the original course. This is similar to the variations of earthly awareness. Both in physical body and in the astral body.
So how do your loved ones communicate with you? This question comes with an easy answer and extends into a complex realization. Your thoughts determine your level of awareness to determine who and what are sending you thoughts, and feelings, as well as internal impulses for you to take inspired action. Both positive influence and negative influence communicate the same way. Both angels and demons communicate with you telepathically. Consciously created souls communicate with you telepathically. You absorb their message into your auric field, (astral body), and your own personal thoughts.
Perhaps energy is manipulated willingly and consciously. Similar to that of me and my Grandpa Joe. Telepathic influence can also be created unwillingly at a subconscious level. This occurs whether you realize it or not. Did your parents ever utter these words to you?, “those people are a bad influence for you”. There is some energetic truth to this statement.
With that, when your loved one hears your thoughts through your telepathic link with them, they do often respond. When they respond, you receive a quick thought. Then you feel nostalgic. You begin to instantly think of memories with them. If you are experiencing heavy grief, your energy likely dips into loneliness and despair when this occurs. You then feel the longing pain of missing them. This is torturous for you. It is for this reason alone, a third non bias party can act as a bridge between you and your loved one. The medium feels the emotions instead of you. The medium receives the impact. This lightens your load, sort of speech.
We all have an astral body. Your astral body seeps out of your physical vessel in all directions. This phenomenon is referred to as your aura. Your energy extends farther than your body does. This energy is part of your astral body. Your physical body is also energy. With that said, your physical body’s main function is to act as a tool for your physical enjoyment. A spirit being can move an object. They are unable to experience the effects of physical touch. Only you, in your physical body can.
Your astral body feels the energy of another source before your physical body does. It is for this reason you send yourself a brainwave which creates goosebumps. When another astral body comes close to you, you begin to co-create an experience together. The more souls, the stronger the co-creation. This is a solid reason for group meditation and prayer work being so highly effective.
Your astral body is affected first. Then it’s your physical body. This is because your brain dictates your own physical affects. You are a psychophysical being whilst here on the physical earth.
You decide how you choose to feel. Another spirit being can only manipulate your astral body into simulating an emotion for you. The coldness you may feel internally is the heat temperature that your body naturally creates being sucked out of you by an energy force having no sustainable heat. If you go from the blazing sun into a freezing cold pool, you are going to experience a considerable difference in your body temperature. Just like how my Grandpa Joe got me to see my own cave. Spirit beings can manipulate your mind into seeing something similar. Once your mind has been manipulated by shared contact and acceptance, you see and feel the intent of the spirit being.
Your loved ones would want you to experience love, peace, acceptance, and reminisce about life experiences they had with you. They would not manipulate you into believing anything painful, nor any form of mindful disturbance. If you are feared into submission for anything for any reason, you are less likely communicating with a loved one, nor a divine being who is helping you.
When the veil between worlds is too thick, due to heavy grief, your loved one may choose to appear to you in the form of a dream. You may or may not realize that you have exited your body in this situation. You may not realize that you are not even focused on your state of awareness. You may be unaware that your body is running at half mass. You may not even notice that your loved one communicates with you without moving their mouth. Yet, you hear or remember exactly what they had said to you, or how they helped you to feel a particular emotion.
What you would remember is how vivid the dream was, as well as how you feel when you wake up from your dream. Yes, this may be a dream. Living here on earth is also a sleepy state. “Life is but a dream, sweetheart”. Written to sound lyrical. When your doubts rule your experience, your loved one will come to you in a dream to help you release the heavy burden. This includes pets and any other form of creation to which you are mourning. You are truly never alone. Your earth is a version of an infinite amount of earths. Vibrating at a frequency which aids in the illusion of solid matter. Close your eyes and think of your loved one to switch your consciousness into the astral realm. When you do this, you are experiencing death without the pain. That is what death is. Death is merely a change of perception.
I think it best I end this post here. I am doing my best to keep my posts somewhere around the ten minutes read mark. I could talk about and write about this stuff for hours. With that said, my hands tell me it is time to rest. I pray this helps you a little?
If this information is truly of interest to you, I recommend watching the movie “What Dreams May Come”. When watching it, please do consider creative expressions. The movie does not relay facts. What it does do is offer an incredible perception to consider. That movie certainly helped me put my experiences into perspective. Perhaps that movie can shed a little light for you too?
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